For me, it just depends on the situation. I have no trouble cumming in 5 minutes with a hot massage girl's hands around me, if she's acting sexy.
But last Saturday, I spent literally 4 hours making love with a girl (civvie, not reportable here), of which probably only about 45 minutes was "hydraulics" (3x in total). The rest was other kinds of body-play - bj/daty/dato, erotic massage, etc.
So the bottom line is: Pumping/bj is probably the best way to get to orgasm quickly, but maybe not the best way to make the enjoyment of sex last a long time. But tough to find that kind of connection with an "hourly" girl.
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