Reply #6 Wurm16's post
If you are that grossed out by seeing "mud", then the dirt road probably isn't for you... Sh*t happens, especially during anal. If you do it often enough, eventually it will happen.
That being said:
1) you are, of course, using a condom with a wg. ESPECIALLY FOR ANAL! If not for her or your protection from diseases, then for your protection from "mud". Plus they seem to hold lube better. So since you don't want to deal with "mud", make her take the condom off. Even if there is some it's her touching it not you.
2) speaking of lube. Use it. More than you think.
3) it will hurt her somewhat. Almost certainly, cause it's your first time, you will go too fast, or at the wrong angle, or not have enough lube or in the right places ( just far enough but not too far). For some people the fact it hurts is half the fun. Giving or receiving.
4) if you find a pro who's done it enough, there will be no mess. Tell her up front and she will prepare. If you can't/don't tell her ahead of time, ask her if she is prepared for anal, and she may take a few min first to prep and clean. Ideally she'd have 30min to prep, so best to set up something scheduled in advance.
5) even if she hasn't had time to prep, it's usually very clean anyways. Don't worry about it.
6) have fun, find someone experienced to guide you. then pressure the SO about it, there is nothing like leaving a load in her ass. | |
