"No means yes! Yes means anal!"
This was a chant that landed a bunch of frat brothers into hot water, i think a year ago. While i think that they were just being obnoxious kids, i do think iit's telling of the generation. I think it has to do with accessibility to porn and the limited actual experience guys have with women at a young age.
Testosterone driven, sex for young men often isn't about quality, but more about quantity. And by being able to brag to their friends about how they plundered and pilllaged, they feel more manly about it. As such, brash bragging begets bad behaviour begets more brash boasting.
Additionally, people punt for different reasons. Some do it out of curiosity. Others just want sex. And still others are looking for deeper connections in order to satiate a need. And as we enter differentphases in our lives, our needs change.
Just my 2 cents
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