Back to OP's point..kinda  ...one of the reasons I switched...(lol...again..kinda) from exclusively punting to going out of my way to find like minded fuck buddies was the GFE experience vs just fucking. I've always enjoyed some interaction with the WG ladies that I'm about to bed and found that even a little bit of chatting and smiling usually delivers a satisfying result...I was never satisfied with the few WG who just wanted me to fuck ASAP and get the hell out.
After more than a year of almost no punting WG's and several fuck buddies later, I've found that the GFE experience can have a downside as well when SHE starts to feel more than I ever will.
Case in point, one fuck buddy who I told from the start that we shouldn't have feelings for each other...it was only about the sex (and she agreed!)...and yet after first time we fucked told me she "loved" me. And soon after also told me it was OK for me to fuck other women as I have my "needs"... lol, and she understands and all is OK  . This was the first time this happened to me and I just couldn't deal with it....having someone "love" me while I feel nothing but respectful sexual attraction for her in return...needless to say I tried my best to let her down gently...still working that one out. lol
On the topic of the "rapey" thing mentioned. I actually had a fuck buddy whose fantasy was exactly that...to feel forced and to have that "rapey" feel...the harder the fuck the better. There was no "passion" with her...just hard fucking. She did an amazing BBBJ and loved to fuck but the whole needing to be "dominated" got old for me very quickly. Guess I'm just a "lover"...not a "fucker" But I didn't drop her until I painted a huge load on her face at her request  Funny thing is we're still friends and chat almost everyday...and share fuck reports with each other...lol...even have cyber sex with her where I turn her on enough that she fingered herself and came...and she told me she "hated" me for it. LOL
The best sex partner is one who offers to pay for lunch (after we've fucked lol), doesn't leech, has no interest in my personal life, happy to meet when it works safely for both of us, doesn't need to be texted everyday and made to feel like a princess, is slim and sexy, is a nympho in bed, and loves to snuggle for a while before doing it all over again. Is she an 18 yr old 10 out of 10, of course not...but for my time and effort I hope this one last for several months.  | |
...one of the reasons I switched...(lol...again..kinda) from exclusively punting to going out of my way to find like minded fuck buddies was the GFE experience vs just fucking. I've always enjoyed some interaction with the WG ladies that I'm about to bed and found that even a little bit of chatting and smiling usually delivers a satisfying result...I was never satisfied with the few WG who just wanted me to fuck ASAP and get the hell out.
. This was the first time this happened to me and I just couldn't deal with it....having someone "love" me while I feel nothing but respectful sexual attraction for her in return...needless to say I tried my best to let her down gently...still working that one out. lol
Funny thing is we're still friends and chat almost everyday...and share fuck reports with each other...lol...even have cyber sex with her where I turn her on enough that she fingered herself and came...and she told me she "hated" me for it. LOL 