yazoo
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5-12-2015 12:48 |
Reply #4 mrclen's post
Becoming familiar with that regular - it doesn't have to be a bad thing. Yes the sex may not have the nervous tension that you have as you figure each other out, but what is lost is replaced by something arguably more valuable - relaxation, intimacy and the freedom to just hang out.
As far as the rough guys... I think it is an age thing rather than a cultural thing. Both in words and deeds. Young relatively inexperienced guys cover up their insecurity with locker room talk. I'm not sure all that rough stuff really happens - but they'd rather be perceived as tough guys than pussies.
Maybe they also believe that only runts 'have to pay for it'. So they're not interested in a paid girlfriend - that ego insulting kind of thing is beneath them. Paying for a porn star however - now that's ok.
But talking to girls - why do they seek out older dudes in the bars? - they do say that they get treated better. Both with money and guys being gentlemen to them and treating them like they've found a new treasured girlfriend rather than a whore.
There is one difference amongst the GFE loving mongers and that is the desire to let go. Some maintain extensive networks of WG friends, others - while treating the girl very well, don't want any contact after the session. | |
| wander |
5-12-2015 20:45 |
Acceptance +3 |
Valid points. I am on the extreme end of the GFE-seeking spectrum, I suppose |
| obe |
6-12-2015 13:58 |
Acceptance +10 |
Good points |
| Jack_Sparrow |
7-12-2015 08:24 |
Acceptance +1 |
agreed |
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