After about 15 years in the hobby I have landed as a GFE seeking punter.
I am overly sensitive to other punters that talk about going hard, smashing that ass, and those types of statements. There isn't anything wrong with it, but it just rubs me the wrong way overall.
The challenge here is when I've found a girl I'm really into and at some point she starts asking me to pull her hair, slapping her ass, choke her, and any other action that most guys would enjoy. It just doesn't do it for me. I always oblige, but if she has any type of radar, she will easily be able to tell I'm just going through the motions. I lost probably my favorite WYP girl of all time due to her tastes in getting roughed up during sex.
The funny part of this story is that when I find the right pro, my desire for the more intimate moments works in my favor. I think many of these girls see a lot of the go hard crowd and they like the change up of a guy that wants to be more intimate. Not always a rule, but it has worked more often than not in my favor.
I do however have a specific type when it comes to the girls I connect with in the hobby. I normally avoid the hardcore pro types and seek the girl next door types when possible.
As far as money? Not interested in doing that math. But if I include travel costs, it would be more than enough to get a four year degree from an Ivy League school.
Great topic Calig. | |
