Originally posted by Jack_Sparrow at 13-11-2015 13:23
I don't like to talk with them about their job or situation, I feel like it brings them down
ironically you're actually putting her down by adopting that attitude.
think about it ... what does it say that you think that she's in any way embarrassed about her chosen work? ... I mean, she's alone in private ... with a complete stranger who just gave her money for sex ... take as long as you need ...
Quite frankly, you're more likely to find that she's pussy-footing around your discomfort with her working as a sex worker, than to find she's uncomfortable about the choice she's made. She's had a lot more time to face her decision than you have, and very likely encountered a lot more judgement and criticism than anyone should have to put up with in a lifetime.
By all means take the lead from her - if she doesn't want to talk about herself, she won't, and you can move the conversation back to smalltalk - such as how she gets her towels cleaned, and the spot price of condoms ...
... and if she does want to talk, she may appreciate the interest and concern you show. It's not what you do it's the way that you do it.
or so I'm told  |
