It's getting obvious that donjon isn't going to be swayed by any arguments here. Just pick either HG or WG because it's not going to make a difference. The reason being that in your life you're going to have both good and bad experiences and a few years from now you're going to realize that the first time having sex really isn't a big deal.
Regardless, in addition to what the guys above have already said, I want to reiterate that...
- Nobody cares whether you're a virgin or not. And nobody knows whether you're a virgin or not.
- The first time having sex really isn't a big deal. Too many people put it on a pedestal. You're putting pussy on a pedestal.
- Years from now you're probably not even going to remember your first time.
- Nobody other than yourself cares about your first time. It might come up in conversation amongst friends, but no one really cares.
- For the most part, your partner won't care about your sexual performance. It's not a sport that's being judged.
- If you think about money too much, like the chance of not receiving full value, then even with the best experience you'll still be thinking about money because then affordability becomes your priority over everything else.
The reason for doing it with a non-pro first, like your girlfriend, is because...
- There's no self-created pressure for sexual performance. When a couple is comfortable with each other neither cares about performance because the sex is going to be great regardless.
- Real relationships allow you to build communiction and social skills.
- The love and sex learning process is incredibly valuable.
- There's no pressure about receiving full value for your money. | |
