Originally posted by donjon at 24-6-2015 08:12
So no hg for my first ?
I'd go for walkup, walkups have more flexibility about what they do.
HG's are strictly under the clock, managed by a papa who's taking as many bookings as he can during her stay. She might be very nice, sweet, sexy, caring, and more, but she's not going to be able to go outside her envelope for you.
So you're more likely to be able to cash in your unique status with a 141. Take your time, check reports, pick one you feel comfortable going to visit, then tell her what you're looking for and DON'T WALK IN THE DOOR UNLESS YOU SEE SHE'S SYMPATHETIC. IMHO age is less important than attitude. OK within reason, I don't mean a MILF unless that's what you're looking for. But I do mean a girl around 28-30 is much more likely to be patient and understanding than an 18-20 hottie who's used to being the centre of attention all her life.
Should you go for a WG?
There are two schools of thought. Being taken by a loving GF is definitely sweet, and leads to much more than just a release of pressure. But then again compromising and having a relationship with a pork chop (who then goes around boasting to all her friends, who will then never talk to you again) or submitting to an abusive and controlling girl are experiences best avoided. The classical advice of getting trained by a pro has a lot to be said for it.
Again IMHO, losing your virginity needn't be the big deal it's made out to be. Certainly it's MUCH less of an issue for a guy than for a girl, emotionally, socially, and in terms of health risks. Given that, the best advice is probably do it when you're ready, and you and only you'll know when that is.
BTW, use a raincoat.
Goes without saying, which is why I'm saying it.
One other thing: you're 21. Consider getting a vaccination for HPV.
Not for you, but for your future wives, girlfriends, and maybe even your daughter(s) ...
HPV has almost no effect on men, except for a couple of strains that can cause genital warts.
But there are 4 nasty strains of HPV which account for the #5 biggest cause of cancer in women: cervical cancer. And yes, they all get it from sex with an infected partner.
You have a chance to break the chain of transmission, and if you're considering losing your virginity with a professional, it would be an incredibly mature and responsible thing to do. It's true of sex with any girl, your gf could pass it to you if she picked it up before you met her, but it's especially true of a pro who's (by definition) had sex with hundreds of men. No, a dom won't protect you or her, and it never will - the only way is to get vaccinated before you catch one of the nasty strains.
It's too late for the rest of us, but you can make a difference, and look after all your future partners. And you can prevent ever having to have a difficult conversation with someone you love, knowing her condition comes from her love for you.
But you can only do it now, before you start. |
