Reply #13 mrclen's post
Let me start by saying I don't really know how to rekindle the passion. Any suggestion I might offer is purely conjecture...
I had a good WG friend in the US for a number of years. After retiring (mostly) as a WG, she started and ran an escort agency in New York. As an escort, she would work for long stretches, then take time off and travel. She said that during the stretches when she was escorting, her sex drive was in high gear. All she could think about was sex. But when she took time off, she never thought about sex or got horny.
Clearly, there was something about the interactions with clients that fed her libido... Was it the anxiety of anticipation, the "rush" of the men's interest and attraction, the sex itself creating a positive feedback high? I don't really know...
I remember another escort saying why she loved escorting... She said that it was the ultimate in sexual liberation. It gave her the opportunity to have wild sex like an animal without any concern as to what might happen -- in terms of emotional involvement or judgment afterwards. It was like getting a "free pass" to play sexual animal...
If you are to get your friend to perform with you like the WG she is (or, at least, was), then you will probably need to rekindle and stimulate for her some part of this WG experience. All I can think of is to shake her out of her comfort zone...
How about this? Tell her to get a hotel room (at your expense, of course). Call her and make an appointment. Have her blindfold herself before you arrive. The prospect of a man coming to call while blindfolded should arouse at least a little anxiety and get her WG juices flowing. When you get to the room, do not talk, do not remove her blindfold... This will lessen the feeling that she is making love to you and heighten the possibility that it will feel to her at some subconscious level like a client experience.
When you are making love with her, you probably have some routine... Whatever it is, do something different. Tie her wrists to the bedposts. Maybe get a little rough (I hesitate to suggest that, because I personally don't like rough play)... Lay her down and engage in a little face fuck... Anything that's not in your usual routine...
Good luck!
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