Reply #283 geek's post
I can't see the ad now (asking me to log into Seeking Arrangement which it didn't do before) & don't recall her nationality. It seems to me that certain nationalities are prone to 'I love you' statements very quickly, I have seen it most with Pinay girls. They are being honest about it but fall out of love as quickly as they fall in love, so you can't take it too seriously. They aren't bullshitting you but their version of undying love will likely be very different to yours.
I fell badly for one girl and she for me - but six months after she left HK she was pregnant and married (in that order). In the mean time, she told me she wasn't pregnant & asked me to send her $$ to come back to HK for work. I knew, from her friends, she was pregnant but she never told me freely, only after I told her I knew. Then it was "now you know, so will you send me the money". Quite funny really.
Similarly, I have been with more than a few girls who have "sponsors" who send them money regularly to keep them out of the bars but they go back anyway and frequently their sponsor is none the wiser. I had a devious and delightful time with one girl, who I got to call her BF on Skype (voice only) while I was fucking her - it was hot, she and I laughed about it, but at the same time she was very grateful to him for the $$. Quite surreal.
As Wander says (above) "you can't take the bar out of the girl", they have a lifestyle going here and it is unlikely to change. Accept it, enjoy the game and move onto the next girl.
Understandably you feel shitty about the whole thing but I would urge you to let it go, move onto the next punt and, most importantly, bear no grudge. | |
