Reply #10 yoyotam's post
Bro, it seems clear you are after a real GFE experience and WANT to give her pleasure as much as you receive it.
Cool. I have always felt the same. I get it.., as do many other regular punters. It gets me hard to see my gal getting off. Love it. Others pay to please themselves with some ultra-hottie doing the work. I get that too. Awesome! Luckily, our world provides for both!
At the very least, most women need to feel safe, protected, comfortable, and respected to be able to get there -- to be able to cum. At the very least. Or they hold it back. Often subconsciously. Some need to feel loved and admired. But typically there needs to be a good connection between you and her. She feels safe in your arms... knows you wont embarrass her, hurt her, mis-use her. Enjoys your company, or look, or something. Even when language is barrier, you can still get there.
But only (usually) after repeat visits.
This is the most basic advice you can get. If you found a WG that you like, and you think was enjoying herself with you... then go back to her. Try her again.. Be sweet to her. And try again...
Case in point:
I just reported about my latest gal.. during our 3rd wonderful meeting she finally tells me she's a squirter... and told me exactly how to get her to that ultimate release. She liked and trusted me by then... and wanted us to get there together. (and we did, by the way... aaaahhhh an awesome time!!). Up until then she told me I was doing everything right..., but she held herself back.
So, keep trying. | |
