My experience has kind of been the opposite of nut wing's. I get my best results when I treat the WG like a lady, showing her respect, tenderness, compassion, and understanding. However, with some, there's just no connection, and no amount of tipping or offering to tip seems to make a difference. Sure, they'll perform for money, but the enjoyment comes from connection.
To drive this point home, there's one therapist I see, who is great to talk to and be with, but truthfully isn't into me. Why? I'm not fat and bald. What! Yes, she loves "teddy bears with high forehead's". Both her husband and her boyfriend are like this. And I'm not. So, she's happy to do the things I ask of her, but it's not like she's going to fall for me. Maybe in 20 years when I'm fat and bald!
So, money talks, but for the unspoken parts of the love equation, it's the connection.
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