Thanks guys,
very kind
Originally posted by ggherkin at 13-3-2014 10:49
... But if achievable, most of us wouldn't be on this board  ...
what if some of us are here on a temporary basis?
maybe the permanence we feel about being here is a cousin of the sense of permanence we gave to our marriage vows?
certainly, responding to the demands of hot young things is very compelling ... but it would be a mistake to assume we've arrived at our final destination,
and I for one am not assuming this is all there is, nor that life can't get (even) better than this!
and I definitely want to avoid pulling down a guy who's discovering a new possibility in his marriage, maybe he can do something that the rest of us are still struggling with 
I'm remembering there was an inspiring post here a few years back, about a guy who's second phone was discovered by his wife ... and he immediately told her about everything he'd been doing and exactly how he felt after she stopped responding to him. She, after thinking about it, gave him a blow job, and then gave him another ... and went on keeping him satisfied just the way she'd originally promised to, ongoing. She got the message, took it to heart, and he completely stopped straying.
He stopped straying, not because he promised to, and definitely not because he was under close surveillance, but because he just wasn't hungry any more.
sorry I don't have time to do a search (just this post  ) so if you do find that post, add the link below, it would be very relevant to this thread!! | |
) so if you do find that post, add the link below, it would be very relevant to this thread!!