I think if you evaluate the risk to your marriage more carefully, you may decide that the risk in what you are proposing to do is too great. Just my opinion, but I think it is better to keep your wife and your hobby separate.
Imagine, for example, her seeing some other man coming out of a session and tipping his masseuse with a large tip and a kiss/hug. She will likely assume that you are having hanky panky too.
Of course, if your wife has no problem with your hobby, then please ignore everything I've written here.
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