Originally posted by hk_justlove at 11-12-2013 06:35
Hey guys, thanks for all your remarks. Appreciate input.
Btw, what exactly do you mean by charm? And, how does one practice it?
Dictionary defines as the power or quality of giving delight or arousing admiration.. With girls (of any sort) it pretty much means the same thing. It means being able to hold her attention, make her laugh, make her smile, make her feel good about herself, make her feel important and center of your attention, and make her enjoy her time with you.
There is no secret, one-size-fits-all answer. Each and every girl is different. You adjust your approach--on the fly--to each one.
That said, a few general pointers never hurt. I've said it before, and I'll say it again--you need to be able to hold her eye-contact...you need to smile (and not in a creepy way)...nothing says "timid" like being unable to hold her eyes. You need to be confident (but not in a cocky way)...establish confidence and everything else falls into place. You need to be able to tease her (but in a kind manner, not in a mean way). You need to compliment her (but not in an gratuitous way). You need to...charm her.
Do it often enough, and the process is largely self-correcting. Do it often enough, and even language barriers are not a hindrance.
Will you fail. Yes. Often. Win some, lose some. Again and again. And then one day it will click...the loss column dwindles and the win column accumulates.
Also, does it apply to escorts?
Escorts are women first, escorts second. So, yes, they respond to charm. In fact, some Escorts are probably harder to charm than your average civilian. They've seen and heard it all...day in and day out...tend to be more jaded as a result. First rule of charming Escorts: Don't treat them like Escorts.
Good luck. |
