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stanley11

8-10-2013 09:21
Reply #14 mrclen's post

Please, don't throw the money at them. It cuts the deepest! Even if she is just a WG, she'll feel it.

About them turning from WG to GF, what happened for me was I didn't give them $$ at the joint. I'll give the $$ at other times. If it's for buying her time for the night, I'll give it to her for her to take it to the company. If I go to the KTV and takes her home after that, I'll give the money in total. But my MO usually is to give a lump sum every month that covers rent and some expenses. This will give them a lot of security because it takes their mind off having to worry about rent.

In my experience, they will become 'less service' oriented when the GF factor starts. However, this is a good thing. She will also become very protective of you.

[ Last edited by  stanley11 at 8-10-2013 09:24 ]

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vinny5443 8-10-2013 23:44 Acceptance +4 Agree with the rent and some expenses! Have only had one experience and it was similar. It is their biggest expense and ...


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