Reply #13 stanley11's post
Wow--and WOW Again! Thanks everyone for their advice--There is really so much good information here that it is difficult to absorb it all. I am in the gift mode at the present--Not so much money for her company, but if offered she sure doesn't refuse it.
One thing I have noticed and haven't seen it mentioned much is the difference between when you first start with a WG and later on. Just want to bring this up before i get into the rest of the subject and forget. When you first take a girl from the KTV, you are a customer and she "works" to please her customer. As you perhaps become her BF, you are no longer a customer so she doesn't have to "work" at pleasing you. So, as a BF, and assuming she still works, you/we are asking her to "work" at work. and then go back to "work" to please us. On my last visit with her, I threw money at her and told her to get out because I wasn't getting the "service" I wanted. Short of it, many tears, left, made up the next day and all was good!! Back to Stanley's post.
1. She swears she doesn't have an outside BF. But I have no way to know.
2. This I am fairly sure I am one of.
3. Never has given me a sob story. Does say her father has diabetes lives close by and walks her dog when she doesn't get home. A little strange and I am not quite sure this is real. Has shown me pictures of her "father" a rough looking man in peasants clothes. Another girl in the Same KTV is trying this approach and I am playing along for the moment to see what happens. Definitely will not be suckered into this other ones "problems".
4. Could be the cooling period, we'll see and I will take the approach given above.
5. And this one could floor you. Suggested that I come live with her and she would still work and take care of me, WTF??
Another poster suggested (a good one), that I tell her my company is in trouble and I can't afford to pay for her to go with me on a short trip. I will try some form of this, but I want to take the trip and need her for my guide!
Anyway, it's an unbelievable relief knowing that I am not the first one to experiencing this situation, and what a great help everyone has been.
Last thing, I will be in China again from 5 December through 16 December and I would love to get together and have that beer!.
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