Reply #1 mrclen's post
One on of the most common tactic by WGs is not to accept money for the session. Trust me, you will pay for more later. Some call it FOC , no.. not Free of Charge, rather, Fuck on Credit. Somehow some of the WGs have developed a 7th sense to detect potential streams of income. Those that can be strung along and be that source of income in multiple ways. Be it rent, shopping, utilities bills, occasional gifts (cellphones, bags), 'medical bills', even pocket money. In Chinese, the saying is '放长线,钓大鱼“ Put out a long line to catch the big fish (direct translation but quite app).
The first reaction by the man is "Oh wow, I'm so handsome/good in bed/there was chemistry that she didn't even want the money! She must like me and the GFE is real! Repeat visits will confirm it. These are 'multiple streams of income'.
Some other tricks from experience:
1) KTV gals will typically have 1 steady BF (be it real or customer). This is the one who will be the rock bed. He doesn't need to be rich, doesn't need to provide monetarily but he will always be there for her. For her to confide in, share moments with, cooks for him/her. Usually he will be in the know but accepts her for who she is.
2) Then she will have multiple 'part time' bfs. These are the richer ones, visit her occasionally at the KTV which she works. Tips well, perhaps outcalls, certainly shopping, gifts, other promises. This is the one the gal will use to bleed. I've once heard the tactic of asking for the same multiple gifts. i.e. Same Chanel Bag, rolex watch, necklace, etc. Something that is expensive. Once they have the 2nd item, they will sell it.
3) Sob stories galore, someone in an accident, medical bills, parent's home in village needs repair or it will crumble, want to go on self improvement courses (typically English), need to go for a holiday because she is stressed, want a car, etc.
4) They will play the 'cooling off' period to test your sincerity. If you start to respond, reach out to her, she'd got you, hook, sinker n all. Look at it this way, there are many man out there but not many will want to be 'involved' with a WG. However, MANY WGs want to be 'involved' with a civvie man. So the odds are in your favor. Don't respond so much to her lack of messages. Hold back. They play this tactic all the time. Once a KTV gal told me that you have to break off with a man to see if he loves you. They break off relationships as a 'test'. They will quarrel, kick up a scene, lie, cry, fight, all to TEST you. Push the envelop. See how far you can be pushed, then they will back off.
5) Oh yes, there will definitely be the part about '家用‘ i.e household expenses. They will normally quote this to be 'exclusive' to you but yet again, nothing is enough. If you are not in the same town (even if you are), you can't monitor her 24/7. So don't fall for it. Some tactic by the 'player' if you have enough resources is to give her so much that she is worried about you stopping. I.e. get her to be totally reliant. But this is very high stakes and if you have that much $$, doing that to a civvie with a simple job will do the trick also.
Remember this and remember well, China girls are brought up in a VERY (extremely) different set of values and moral standards. Mostly due to the one child policy, poverty (pre 90s), lack of proper education, lack of strong religious beliefs. Because there's 1.3 odd billion of them, they are very protective of themselves. It is a eat-eat-eat society. However, if you had won their heart, they will fight to the death protecting you. See how Rupert Murdock's wife defended him (more like attacked the assailant) when someone tried to push a pie into his face! | |