Reply #1 mrclen's post
Mrclen,
I'm not sure about your personal status, single or still married. I speak with multiple experiences with involvement with WG, a couple rather seriously. Let's get some issues straight:
1) how far are you willing to take this relationship to? Are you willing to give her a new life?
2) how sure are your feelings towards her? Let me tell you this, the period of courtship is the most sought after feeling of all times. New love, puppy love, you'll feel as if you are reliving your youth. It's magical
3) Do you have the resources to do this?
Let's assume that you are willing to dive head in. You will have to decide what kind of relationship this would be.
1) Does she continue being a full KTV gal (with outcalls) and only exclusive to you when you are around
2) Does she continue to be a KTV gal but sex is exclusive to you (I'd say that this is preferred from your reaction)
3) Does she stop being a KTV gal altogether
Each of the above has it's solutions. But first, you have to accept this: don't use your set of values and moral standards to measure her/them/WGs. In China, being a KTV gal is acceptable by many. Some even consider it as a decent job, especially if you are young and beautiful but from a poor and uneducated background. You'll have to see how the KTV gal uses the job to change her life.
Next, about Love. Mainlanders are very practical. If you provide for her, her family, her needs, she will dedicate herself to you. Of course there are exceptions that will bleed you dry but come on, every culture, nation, has these blood suckers.
I've had the rare chance to toy with some of these and I must say that it is a high price, variable gains game. But the feeling is priceless. If you really manage to find someone who truly cares for you and you to her in return, at whatever your age, you will feel re-energised, the relationship will rekindle a lot of emotions, feelings that lay dormant for years will come rushing back. Call it the fountain of youth, elixir of youth. Hey, you only live once! Live it thoroughly!
You may PM me if the discussion gets sensitive. I'm willing to share my experiences with you. | |
