Reply #1 mc11091989's post
I have been watching this thread with some amusement. The question raised was essentially "Is it weird to have a mid 30s or 40s age man dating a attractive woman in her early 20s?" I think this is the wrong question. A better question would be "Why would any sane attractive woman in her early 20s want to date a guy her own age?"
Let's face it... With the exception of sports stars, men generally gain in maturity, status, and wealth as they get older, until they hit a plateau about mid 40s. Most women want security. A younger men will either mature and gain status -- at which point he will probably dump the then 30-something woman for a younger and more attractive woman -- or he will wither away, and she will be left attached to a hopeless loser.
By contrast, by latching onto a mature man, she can get current security and be reasonably assured that he will continue to be attracted to her for the rest of his life.
I figure the proper age difference between a man and a woman dating in Asia should be about 15-25 years.
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