Reply #1 lazytjai's post
I had a similar situation with a super-cute Filipina girl who worked in my local McDonalds in London.
I asked my friends what I should do, and they said write her a card and put your number in it (it was almost Valentine's day so I waited for that as a good excuse to give her a card). They also said I should buy her a lottery ticket and put it in the card, and write 'take a gamble on me'. It was pretty cheesy but I did it anyway.
I went into McDonalds and waited in line patiently, nervous as hell. When I got to the front I just said "Hey, I don't want to order anything, I just wanted to give you this", gave her the card, smiled, and walked out.
Whaddya know... an hour later I got a text from her saying it was really sweet, and a few days later we started dating.
Just go for it man, start talking to her or give her a note with your number on it if you're too nervous to talk upfront.
*Edit: There's a heap of good advice above, but as ggherkin reiterates: 'It isn't a failure if she says no. It's only a failure if you don't try.' | |