Reply #1 DArtagnan's post
I have typically only asked a few questions ("how much?", and "for all nite?").
As far as her performance goes I found a couple different comments/questions worked well to set the mood:
"Damn baby, Are you as hot and awesome in bed as you are on the dance-floor??". Or even the negative of this, "You CAN'T be as hot and awesome as you are on the dance-floor!". If she says she is (they all do!), I find it usually works to elevate her performance. A personal "challenge" is stuck intheir brain or something.
In bed, I always tend to lead. So the only position I need her to agree to initially is DATY. Once a gal has orgasmed, or is close to it, you can pretty much initiate ANY position you want. This is not always true, of course, but a good general rule that is usually true. I have had only a few real duds who wouldn't do certain positions.
Anyway, I like the barscene because it feels natural and mutual. (whether she's just acting or not). So going thru a "checklist" would blast that illusion apart. I like the mystery and challenge of the event as well. Part of the thrill. | |
