Reply #1 lazytjai's post
Lots of great comments here
Key thing I want to underline is that you're setting yourself up for failure, by worrying about it and overthinking it. As soon as you start trying to plan a contrived situation, to get her to do what you want, you're lost. You're especially lost the moment you begin to try to avoid her rejection.
Much better to assume it's going nowhere
and then take the shot.
As Wander says, test her out - next time you see her just walk up to her, and say something like "You work so hard here! I wish I could meet you some time you're not so busy!" and give her (no more than) three seconds to take the hook.
If you want to get proficient, best thing I can think of is for you to study and master the art of flirting - of saying something that can be understood two ways, and of giving a compliment while seeming to talk about something totally mundane.
There are lots of other things you can do, but this one - flirting - seems to be enough on its own. Girls love the game, and end up taking the lead. | |
