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TheButler	8-6-2013 00:38
	Reply #7 lazytjai's post Dude, Don't be a stalker, and at the same time be the guy that treats her different.  In a fast paced restaurant sometimes this is simply being the one with the friendly smile for her, as opposed to everyone else just rushing to get in and out.  Next time she serves you, ask her name and give her yours, nothing more.  Make very short and simple jokes about the restaurant/menu/guests.  Go slow, be a regular, and make a point of going well before or well after the rush to increase your chance of getting an extra 15 seconds to chat her up, but above all don't look like you're lurking or stalking. After a few weeks of this you'll be the friendly guy who's name she knows and who's a regular; you'll get your chance to ask her out for coffee and then you just take it from there.  Good luck!

Username	Time	Credits	Reason
russex	18-8-2013 23:29	Acceptance +1	great strategy! very useful

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