For you young single bucks, the Wanchai scene is probably appealing. But to us (slightly) older, married guys, the dynamic needs to be very different.
Some of my best experiences have been with girls on the hour-at-a-time plan, but where, after a few visits, a kind of mutual trust and understanding emerges. I still enjoy being "the guy that stands out" as being able to make a mental and emotional connection with a girl, not just a physical one. It's what I pride myself on.
But to be honest, it's real hard to find that with someone you just see for an hour and then never again. So, I think we're all saying the same thing.
Gherk | |
