My hypothesis on choosing a potential FWB (married edition)
This is MY OPINION, I don't need any flaming because this comes from my experiences
Married women are the best targets, they have as much to lose as you do and more likely than not, wanting to try something new. The big dilemma is the same as ours, where to find a safe, disease free partner at the highest discretion.
My first clue usually are tattoos, if she does have tattoos, I like to see if they are out in the open or hidden. Tattoos on the hand, arm and or ankles are the best. I mean, this doesn't mean you can go right up to them and say "you wanna fuck?" I tend to befriend them, and then isolate them from the husband. I can't be friends with him regardless, if I do, then I won't chase his wife.
You have to establish a "friendship", first with just plain platonic talk, weather, media news, kids, food, etc... once comfortable you can test the waters lightly. There are plenty of "on the line" talk and plenty of "on the line" behaviors, meaning the line between acquaintances and or something more. You can't just jump into it, you have to be careful unless you know for sure that you can cut that cord and never worry about her ever, then you can be a bit more aggressive but most "targets" are not that detached from your real life.
I'm going to throw in a story about how I got away with getting some on the side, the excitement of it and getting away with it.
This one started a few years ago. There was a restaurant that I frequented to buy food. The owner was an acquaintance, I did not know her son who seldom stayed at the restaurant but her daughter in law was working there. She was imported from Guangzhou, definitely not a country bumpkin, she knows her way around the world but I'm guessing she married to get out of China.
Week after week, I purposely did NOT call in my order and would just go there to order food so I could chat with her. She had a nice tattoo on her hand as well as her upper shoulder as I found out later. She would disappear 1 or 2 months at a time. I later found out she was always going back to China. At that point, our conversations got deeper, we would have our "moments" but nothing totally showing until one month I had to stay in China. She asked me where I went, I said China, she said OH... you go back too? She asked me to tell her the next time I went so that we can "have tea" in China. She made an "opening" it was not explicit, it was subtle but enough for me to finally make my move. It was apparent I wasn't going to fuck her in China, too many hot chicks I could pay for that.
One afternoon, I happened to be totally free and decided to go there for lunch. She was leaving and told me she was off that day, only there to pick up something. I told her I was off too, I asked her if she wanted to have lunch. I purposely picked somewhere "far" and "away" from the Chinese community. Her eyes "understood" and I drove an hour away to have a nice private lunch. It happens to be that there are many hotels up and down this certain highway.
She sat right next to me as we ate "close" Legs touching, arms brushing and just chatting and laughing away. At this point, things were finally made clear without "jumping into anything immediate" As we played the game, I told her I was tired and needed to rest, she said the same so we went to a motel to "rest" Once in the room, we made out like teenagers, clothes started coming off and kissed for a good 30 mins while groping one another. I had condoms on me, but at that point she had already climbed onto me and my dick slipped into her incredibly wet pussy. We fucked for a good 3 hours with a 1 hour nap. This went on for a good few months until her family started to get suspicious. We don't see one another anymore, phone numbers erased and emails deleted.
Just last week I saw her holding her husband and kids. eh... that's the way the cookie crumbles, but this woman fell right into my theory and hypothesis on which women are best to try to bag.
I have a few more stories, just not that much time. | |
