I know you have already made you call on this, but let me add... I think you did right.no good is going to come of opening this up, it's their deal, let them deal with it. Think of the many, many, many, many times you have stepped out. No good would have come of someone ratting you out. Wouldn't have helped you or your SO. Let cheaters cheat, and let them deal with what that means. Same as you do.
Though, you might tell the bro - not cool. Sleeping with your brothers best friends wife... Not a cool move. He put you in a kind of shit position, and if he was gonna do that, he should have kept that shit dead secret. Even from you.
Just my thoughts.
With my history, I don't think I'll ever have the moral authority to rat any one out, no matter how egregious the violation. I'd imagine if you think about it, you might have the same position as well.... Not to mention, just as much to lose should yo go stirring up hornets nests about other peoples infidelities. They may know more about you than they have let on already. And with you, there is much they could know. If you get my point. | |
