Originally posted by wander at 22-10-2012 01:45
This is no longer a hypothetical question for me.
I just learned that my best mate's wife has recently cheated on him. Just a one-nite-stand. But I know the guy she did it with exceedingly well (he ...
He stepped out on her, and if he lives in hong kong, he has probably being doing
the same since, just not as regularly, and probably doesnt have a mistress,
a guy will generally take the oppotunity for a one nighter, or an occasional
pump, but a girl when she steps out is looking for a way out......
unfortunately the chances of them surviving is limited, she was probably
quite hurt, and can never truly trust him again...i experienced this just from
having fun on the internet with women when icq was popular,
my ex figured i was cheating on her...no...the women were miles away,
but in his case it was very real....
as far as telling him...i wouldnt get involved...even though it was with brother,
that might even complicate things more...ignorance is bliss....chances are if you told him,
and said it was your brother...your freindship would end anyways...you sound
like you are close to him and his wife....what the fuck...they both cheated...if it
helps them survive the marriage, then that will be good....maybe that is something they should
discuss.....i dont tell nyone anything when it comes to extra marital events...
unless they set these things straight before or during their relationship, the risk is all theirs,
why interfere.....they both played....game on
cheers |
