Originally posted by virginboy at 11/30/12 08:13 PM
No more mistresses or girlfriends for me. I'm now happy to not need to lie to my wife of my whereabouts every night. My stress levels have dramatically dropped and I feel happy as larry. I seriously doubt this. Your post history for the past two years shows that you have a history of stringing along civilians, co-workers and random girls that you meet. And you enjoy doing this.
Like here you said:
I just want to get them all excited and interested (eg. I act perfect, pretend I'm awesome, I buy them expensive gifts like MacBooks, I buy them expensive dinners, I tell them everything to make them happy and think I'm the perfect bf/husband) and when they are in love with me, I get enjoyment in dumping them or just disappearing to crush their feelings etc. Its like I have get excited by seeing other women get hurt... maybe because I was embarrassingly dumped 10 years ago by my ex-gf who crushed me publicly in front of everyone.
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=38770
And in this thread you tried to string along a civilian but she turned the tables and cheated you first:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=36529
If you're going to string women along then that's your choice. But please don't be looking for sympathy when you've been a real jerk towards them. Continue enjoy seeing WGs and have fun. But don't be a dick about it. And you totally are a masochist. You enjoy this stuff. I understand playing with danger. Sometimes I do it as well. But if you play with fire then prepared to be burnt. And you've been burnt. Don't blame the girl.
And you really need to let go of that ex-gf who dumped you 10 years ago. You already know that you're trying to take revenge on her by embarrassing and dumping other girls. Does that make you feel better? I was in a similar situation many years ago and thought that if I dumped the next girl then I would feel better. But I didn't. The real issue is that you need to let go of your old feelings.
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