A thread made by a guy here whose wife suspected him of seeing WGs made me think about this topic. Below are some random thoughts I had as well as from my own experience about keeping your hobby secret. My rules are 1.) Don't be stupid; 2.) Don't leave a trail; and 3.) Don't get caught.
- Don't shit where you eat. Women talk and many have a network of eyes and ears to know what their husbands and boyfriends are up to. If you live in Causeway then just forget about the walkups and HGs there because you don't want any friends or family to see you. Also know that you might not know all of your SO's friends, even though they might recognize you.
- Never use your PC at home to check sites like Sex141. This is rule #2. You never know when you may slip up like forgetting to clear the browser history and cookies. And even if you do clear them, your SO may find it suspicious that your PC never saves any history when most other people's PCs and web browsers do. My gf has her own PC so this makes my life a little easier.
- Don't save anything to your personal phone or computer. A lot of us like to have trophies, e.g., photos of girls, and this is a huge mistake if anyone other than yourself can access it. I email photos to myself to a secondary email address use just for this and then delete them from my phone. I do this ASAP after I leave the WG's room.
- I create fake names for WGs in my address book. Actually, this breaks rule #2 so I can't really recommend it. Always assume that your wife can and will go through your phone. You only want stuff on it that you're not afraid of her learning about. Also realize that even if you have codenames for everything she can just show it to someone else to try to decrypt.
- Use a second, hobby-only phone. If your employer gives you a work phone, then buy the same one and make it your hobbying phone. Your wife needs to see you carrying and using your work phone so that she gets used to seeing it with you. Then you can make the crazy attempt to hide your hobby phone in plain sight.
- Use drop boxes. I don't know if you can do this in Hong Kong, but in some parts of the world you can rent a mailbox for real mail to be delivered to. Obviously you're not going to be sending mail to it, but you can use it as storage for your favourite condoms, cialis or cologne. This way your "tools" will never have to be in the house.
- Plan far ahead. If you see a WG during the day and then at night have sex with the wife, she's going to ask why you had so little cum from orgasm. Trust me, women can tell and they'll ask. If she knows that you're a chronic masturbator then that can explain things. But you're not a masturbator. You just need her to believe this and that your balls are always out of spunk because you can't control your masturbation habit.
- Use scented soaps and body washes. Use the same ones that women use. That floral and sometimes fruit scented kind. If the WG uses a scented soap then this is easier to mask because you use the same at home.
- If you see WGs after work then make it a habit of getting home late from work often. You want to get your wife accustomed to the routine that you often work late at the office. This requires some long term planning as well as wasting a lot of your own time if you finish work at 5pm but want the wife to think that you finish at 7pm.
- Use condoms. The last thing you want to bring home to the wife is an STI. At that point the game is over.
[ Last edited by Freelancer at 14-11-2012 13:43 ] | |
