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25-10-2012 02:12 |
Originally posted by wander at 22-10-2012 22:45
My brother told me about it.
You might want to quietly talk to the wife and advise her that through unusual circumstances you know what's up and you will never ever tell her hubby. If she knows it's your brother it is perfectly understandable that might you be privy. The shock of striking so close to home might cause her to either give up her poor behavior or at least become like one of us and become adept at staying out of sight. Hopefully she'll trust you on that and not live in fear you'll blabber.
This way if your friend ever finds out you knew, you can say you made an effort in his best interest. If your friend ever finds out you knew you could also ask him what he would have done if one his wife's friends had warned him in confidence about his GF on the side.
Lastly there is the slight possibility of some deep trouble in the relationship that that made it easy for both of them to stray. Situations that neither of them spoke to others outside or maybe they never even were aware of or admitted.
Doghead had the right approach only I wouldn't suggest the threat of exposure. If she spent time crying on your shoulder you wouldn't want to ever ruin that friendship. Her life is tough enough now that she's strayed and she may need that shoulder again. | |
| wander |
25-10-2012 12:42 |
Acceptance +1 |
Some good advice. Yes, he is my best mate, but she is a good friend too. A goo ... |
| DArtagnan |
28-10-2012 18:40 |
Acceptance +1 |
great points |
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