Reply #25 halfclover's post
Yes... this is key. If she is in "love", which I am not doubting.. than her acceptnace of the situation will not last. I have been down this path time and time again. At some point she will get frustrated, hurt, and upset, that she only gets a little bit of you -- that you are available ONLY on your schedule, while your wife gets everything else. That she cant have more of you..., cant even call you. Or even sms you.
These relationships are never stable. They grow to unbelievably lustful/romantic/honeymoon-love-affairs, and then hit a wall of some kind. Hopefully, the "wall" in your case is not the emotional explosion of a scorned woman. Just dont open yourself up to this kind of risk. ALL my gals (even Joann, my 4-year love affair that totally sunk me) never knew my wife's name, never saw a picture, never knew my address, my employers name... etc. etc. It would have taken them a lot of work and stealth to try to track down my "real world". | |
