Wow, I didn't think this would get such strong responses, but I've been caught up in the middle of it, and it's good to see what others think! I'm certain that she isn't trying to get me to be a sponsor, and "fairly" certain that she wouldn't do me harm. She never knew my room number (BIG hotel), I just knew hers. I told her to never text me a message of any kind...just a number...1415, and I would know that was her room number. She respected that, and never tried to stalk us...she stayed in the room, and waited for me. One night we met out on the street and walked around Tianmen Square together, one night we had FS all over the room, and one night I went to her apartment and we had tea, talked for an hour, climbed into bed, then went out to dinner. That last one was covered by a planned "business meeting". Then in the middle of the day, when the wife was tired and took a nap, I was in her room in 3 minutes!
I probably seem too trusting, but I don't think she has any bad motives at all. Everytime that I see her, she buys new outfits for me to enjoy. I have asked her what I can get her, and she says that I have my own responsabilities and not to worry...that all she wants is love. I do give her money everytime that I see her, but it is never solicited. I give her money to help cover the flights to Hong Kong, to pay for the hotel rooms, and to go home to visit her family...but not once has she asked for anything from me. The last night in Beijing, we went out to dinner, and I took out money to pay for it, and she insisted on paying for it herself!! I couldn't believe it.
She has a lot of class, she is the most polite Chiinese girl that I have ever met, and she dresses very nice. While I'm buying the imitation stuff at the Silk Market, she says that she hates to go there because it's not real. I have been all over her apartment, looking for clues about her life, and everything looks in order. I'm not sure where it will head, but I made it clear that I am not walking away from my marriage. | |
