I found a girlfriend in Beijing!
I was staying in a hotel near the Forbidden City, and feeling kinda bored. Walked into a European hotel nearby, and went down to the basement where the KTV and Spa were located...the Spa in my hotel had been busted by the LE. Really nice girl gave me a really good firm massage, and then on the flip, I encouraged some playful touching. At first, she rejected my advances, and after awhile she relented. I like this girl alot, so returned on the second night...this took place a year ago. Then we met on the third night in front of the Silk Market. We went to her apartment, and after some tea and talking, we were kissing like there was no tomorrow. Next thing I know we are on her bed, and I am DATY...as she is moaning and saying "I'm going to die!" It was a great night, and I was wondering where it would lead. We began to email each other almost every other night, until I had a trip to Hong Kong. This girl flew from Beijing to Hong Kong, in December (3 months after first meeting her) and spent 3 nights with me there! She paid for her own flight, and didn't ask for a thing.
We continued to email each other for the next five months until I took a trip to Xian and we met there for three nights in May of this year. Man! The sex is so good and we are having a great time, but the emotions are getting pretty strong. I'm mongering less, (used to mongering 2-3 times a month...or more) but seem to be ok with that. Still happily married for over 30 years, but really feeling a connection with this girl...she is 20 years younger than me! Well I spent another weekend in July with her in Beijing!! She buys new lingerie for every night that we are together, and the sex continues to be great, but I'm worried that she is going to get hurt in the end. So here's the kicker. This last trip, she booked a room in the same hotel as me and my wife! I'd spend the day with the wife, and sneak out at night and see my girl! I did this for 3 nights. What do you guys think about this? Am I playing with fire? Should I cut my losses and end it?
She is a really classy girl, not like WG. She supports herself with three different jobs. She seems to have plenty of money...doesn't seem to need mine. She has never asked me for anything, except my time and friendship. I just feel like I'm taking chances. I can tell she isn't that experienced in sex. The problem is when we go to the airport to say goodby, she is crying like crazy, and can't seem to stop. I made no promises to her, but to enjoy each other's company. I'm afraid that the further along this goes, the more attached she will be. By the way, I'm planning on seeing her again in December! | |
