Original Post
sirtiger

14-8-2012 05:33




QUOTE:
Originally posted by aznohk at 11-8-2012 09:28 PM
Is this kind of romance bound to fail? Is it the ex-WG's fault to trust an ex-punter, is it the ex-Punter's fault to take an ex-WG as wife?
Or is it even fair to begin with, to ask an ex-WG or an ex-punter to become a real exclusive partner and expect loyalty?


my obvious answers

1.  it can work if both want it bad enough.  I am a firm believer romance can last but there are more challenges than a typical relationship
2.  Its not the ex WG fault imo.  He was fucking around & making her look bad.  She pleaded him to not go to the places where she was known.  She lost "face".  That is particularly bad for chinese women. As you noted, she was willing to let him be a punter....just not those places.
3. Its all fair as to what is communicated in the beginning.  The reality, its most people don't change which is what people should realized.

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halfclover 14-8-2012 05:55 Karma +1 Well said


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