Also: monitor HER! I installed some apps on her phone so I get see every sms she gets or sends. Now, honestly, I have no concern that she's cheating on me. I never felt any need to worry about. (And after monitoring her chats for a few years I have even less reason to worry - damn girls are chatty and boring!).
Anyway, I did this (installed the spy apps) to get a preemptive "head's up" if one of her friends is talking about ME! ("I saw Wander in Wanchai with 3 hookers and a midget last Thursday!"). That sorta stuff. (PS: the midget was there purely to film the events. Though we did toss him a few times. Hehe).
I gotta a very good mate here who joins me often for fun and games. The problem is he doesn't really give a damn about getting caught. His SO and my SO are best friends. I tried a few times to tell him - Mate, if you get nailed while you are out with me then I GET NAILED TOO! I have been so close to getting crucified cause he won't delete sms's I sent when we lost each other in Wanchai and his SO reads them. Fuck me! Luckily, I send everything in "code" now to him so what she read made no sense.
My point?
You can get caught by sources you never expected. Your best friend can get you burned totally by accident. So think about every message you send within your family "circle". Accidents happen - and they can be marriage-ending.
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