Originally posted by sirtiger at 19-6-2012 21:18
I think most WG don't care what you wear ... I think you're right: most don't
after all, the girl with the guy TheButler saw clearly didn't care ... at least, she didn't care enough to turn down his money ...
... but that isn't the whole picture
What about the other girls who skillfully avoided him before he met the one he was with?
I mean the real lookers who guys go back to repeat with?
Look at it this way, you meet a stunning 10/10, who's going to fuck you, but she's foul-mouthed and smells a bit - would that change your motivation? Sure it would! If she looks good enough and is going to get you off, you probably won't kick her out of bed, but you won't go all out either. And you will be on guard throughout in case the verbal bad temper escalates into worse.
When you dress up, wash, and smarten up, you're basically communicating non-verbally that you care about her reactions. The self-confidence inherent in grooming and preening is an instinctual mating ritual, and if it's skipped out, the act of copulation isn't at all the same.
For a start she will trust you more,
which means better service, more eagerness, and probably GFE
She will WANT you, as distinct from wanting your money, and will show it with sexy body-language and frisky attitude
And she is much more likely to relax, enjoy herself, and completely get into the fantasy
you're going to give her your money, and she's going to fuck you
but looking after yourself, and giving her a bit of respect at the same time, costs you less and gets a much better response than any amount of tips ever would |