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AsnDragon

25-5-2012 12:55
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yazoo          25-5-2012 12:37          Acceptance          +1          A very perceptive girl. But was she right?


Until this day i don't know if she was right. Whenever i drive by the hotel, the restaurant or the place we use to hang out i still wonder how she is doing or where she is at. A cute hubei girl with really fair skin and beautiful face. 10 years later and I'm still wondering how she's doing...I guess i'm more of a SEAN than I thought--A hopeless romantic.


SEAN---I don't know how you fall so deep into the romance. I've been in situations where the girl literally asks and implies if the relationship can carry onto marriage. Asking me to meet her parents soon etc. It gets really sticky even when I tell her that this is just an exchange of money for companionship. Then hours later she'll come back and say...yeah I can see you being a good husband and a good father to my children. Then she wants to do bareback sex, which I do not participate in even with civvies unless they are tested and when i resist bareback sex, she loves me even more! saying how I am such a gentlemen, so many other guys would just do her bareback and not care about her and that I'm the only man who's resisted such temptations. I'm telling you, it's like I want the romance part of it, but it comes with serious responsibilities and baggage as well. Every girl i get into these romances with always dreams of a future together, or marriage etc. I'm sure that's happened to everyone right?


AsnDragon--- How do you guys get the romance without the eventual expectation from the girl of a long term future together?

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SEAJ 25-5-2012 12:59 Karma +1 Easy! Just be honest w/ur intentions and keep on being honest. Never waiver.


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