Reply #3868 wander's post
Now I'm really upset!!
You've given MY points to AD!!
Jeez!
Yes, affairs - whether with civvies or with WG's DO bring a lot to one's life...and I ain't only talking about the sex part.
What it does is to re-affirm one's own vitality and purpose in life - whilst tempering it all with realization that one's truly getting more than his fair share in life. And just so long as it does not ADVERSELY affect one's relationship with one's own family, then IMHO it's all good.
The bad thing that usually happens though, is that a guy gets all cocky when he's in an extra-marital affair and instead of being grateful for such/GRACIOUS, he starts giving "attitude" to his BETTER HALF - thinking that "Hey, I is still wanted, you old bag." Bad mistake and a worse assessment of oneself as an SO and Family is NOT and will NEVER BE just an affair.
Again just my own POV
SEAN...hey, I'm starting to make sense, even to myself!! LOL!
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Reply #3869 AsnDragon's post
Come ON old man - you're so well positioned - what with your big bucks and no SO to worry about - to really enjoy yourself that its not even funny!
What's stopping you from truly going into an affair - either with a WG or with a cvivvie? Or better still - why not go into BOTH at the same time? Fall in love with a WG and go for all the bells and jingles - just remember to make sure that both of you are on the same page about $$ changing hands and that lots of what goes on is predicated on such!
Then go back home and cultivate an affair with a civvie at the same time. You will be so grateful for this "double blessing" that you will not only have a grand old time with both gals, but that the gals in question will also be able to enjoy YOU for what you are!! Old money bags to the WG and a great guy for the civvie....all cheerful, know how to please and never demanding. After all, a LOT of civvies are turned off with guys who's always just trying to get in their pants...no matter if she actually wanted him to do so or not!! LOL! Farkin Women Lib!
SEAN...YUP- I is got a solution for everytin' - LMAO!
Ps edit - Thanks you guys - I wonder if being a Karma whore is also a high honour around here??!! LOL!
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