Reply #24 sa14's post
Sa14,
Well let me tell you something. I know you probably got out of a long term relationship, and you want to really explode and experience all and every type of girl you can find with no strings attached. But two things that I see will eventually happen:
1. You will realize that in this hobby, you will become numb and empty at times. You will be reminiscent about what it felt like to have someone actually truly care and love you.
2. You become completely jaded about women in general and it becomes even harder for you to be in a relationship later on. As you realize how many women can be bought with cash, you tend to carry on that same sort of mentality towards a civvie-- where you lose patience easily and think...why am i wasting so much time on you when i could get a girl 10 times as pretty for half the money i spent on you who wouldn't talk back to me. Of course hobbying will affect your mindset and outlook on relationships and even women in general.
Word of advice is...if you really want a relationship, it's better to do it while you are young, where there's not much of an age gap between you and your SO. There's at least a fighting chance or you feel better about the relationship because you can be at ease to know that perhaps she's wanting to be with you because of you and not because of your money. As i've stated before, when you get to be my age where I look like I'm the girl's father or grandfather, and I walk down the street with a 19-20 something year old, there's no denying the girl is after my money and not after my looks. In addition, there is NO future between us. However when you are younger, there's still hope that you two match well together and girls will daydream and dream about a future with you and all of those romantic thoughts equate to a more romantic, deeper and more meaningful relationship.
Time waits for nobody.
AsnDragon-- wish i had been in more relationships while i was younger, now that i'm older it's kinda ridiculous to be in a relationship, i can only be involved in a sponsorship type of arrangement. | |
