my two cents
i was a nerd in high school and got a lot of NOTHING from gals when i was insanely horny. but soon i acquired some "game" and was raging in the party scene. yeah, it was fun. didn't get anyone pregnant or crash any automobiles. i was lucky.
now: i've been married, i punted during that time but not in HK: i guess that was my "rule," but i think my SO wd have been OK with it, i'm sure she was aware. nowadays, i respect that women are usually seeking a life-partner, kids, security: why not.
it ain't me, babe: i've been through that phase, there was a distinct endpoint. i'm single and fine with it. i like having my time for my interests, work and hobbies. if that makes me selfish, so be it.
but i like sex, and i especially like that it's available as a service. and like any service, treat your service-providers well. for me it IS like a restaurant: oh yeah, that dish looks TASTY. but remember that the waitress is a human being: if yr order isn't quite what you wanted, request a change, but don't be a dick about it! people in service-industries are people first and workers second. this is as true in the 141 scene as anything.
one thing i enjoy is talking with WGs about their work/lives. this of course means you have to maintain professional discretion: whether they have a boyfriend, their real name etc are none of your business (and your details are equally private). but i've spent hours in the room of more than one 141-walkup, yakking away and cuddling with some gal, and it's enjoyable. they're in that room all day, they welcome the diversion. most guys wanna show up, knock it, pay and leave. fine. sometimes it's that way...esp in HK where time is literally money. but sometimes, u get to chat.
and yes, sometimes women like sex, treat them well and it'll happen. many bros know this already!
Jack | |
