Reply #3864 AsnDragon's post
Yeah, I think this is normal, AsnDragon. If you punt a lot, and have done so for many years, than you've already had the hottest gals imaginable, the greatest tits, the sexiest asses, the best blowjobs, the wickedest 3ps, etc. etc. etc. The "physical" components of the sex act becomes less important, and your overall "connection" with the gal more important.
As a young man I didnt care about the connection. If they asked me questions about myself I lied. I didnt WANT them to know anything about me; and if they spoke I scarcely listened -- I didnt want to know anything about them either. This was sex. Pure and simple.
But as I aged this flipped completely.
The VAST majority of my punting is with regulars. And most of my regulars have been seeing me for years now. We really know each other. We enjoy each other's company - whether in the bed, in a restaurant, dancing in a bar, or shopping for underwear. Yeah, I still have my one-nite-stands - but only when I'm having a blast with the gal in the bar first. The sponteneity of this is still fun -- but even this requires more than just a hot gal for me -- we have to click or I move on quickly.
Sometimes these romances get a little heavy. But all these gals know my situation and I've always stayed very honest with them. And yeah..., once emotions get involved, and they do, it can be mind-bending. (for her and for you). Tears get shed. I've been down this road with my own heart only once with a girl I simply cannot give up; and indeed after much anguish in trying to simply forget her I instead decided to stay on the road and see where it leads. It's been bliss combined with longing mostly. Wonderful. And make no mistake -- if I had to choose all over again whether I would meet and fall for this gal I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. In fact, I wouldnt have resisted her for so damn long!
What else in life beats such feelings, right? So enjoy. Be careful, of course, but we're only here once right? | |