Reply #4 yazoo's post
I think this is wrong on many levels. First you suggest their life is hellish, and then contend that it would be better for it to be a continuous hell rather than an intermittent one.
I'm not saying that it's hell being a WG. I am saying that it's a difficult, hard and lonely life that they made with their free will, a economical trade-off.
What I am also saying is that by being kind we're giving false hope even if you tell the truth i.e. you're attached, you definitely do not want a WG as a GF. This is because you might very well be the longest man in a while that has treated them nicely and they hope you will change your mind. Having hope quashed makes it harder for a person to grow hope again, and hope is really what makes us as humans want to live for the next day when times are tough.
I would really like for all punters to be nice and respectful so that it makes it ok for you to be acting in such a way and not stand out, but how can you convince other punters to act in such a way? |
