Looks like WhoreMonger checked-out but I'll contribute nevertheless.
I see a WG regularly. Same one. Sinking ship syndrome is a very real problem. You need to remind yourself that you at one of many to her. It's hard to do because your ego is telling you that you are special to her. It's the ego that leads to the sinking of the ship much more than the physical or emotional connection. I've manage to prevent myself from sinking but only just sometimes
As for assisting girls in scamming dudes, perhaps it's not such a clear cut situation. We Gwailos like to see the world as black and white with no gray in between while in Asia everything is gray (especially the sky). Perhaps Monger encouragesthe girls and it makes him feel more special to them than their other punters. Perhaps his ego has sunk his ship and he's the one in denial. We shouldn't throw stones. Who and emotion are powerful things and it sounds like Monger has let his get the better of him for now.
As for scamming other bros...the WG I see regularly has a fly-in punter from Europe that doesn't come to GK much but his ship definitely sunk for her. He calls her several times per day an will call over and over again until she answers. She's a good hearted girl and speaks to him but it is really draining for her. It's annoying, he apparently says annoying things and it's a constant hassle every day. I told her he should pay her if he wants her to be at his neck and call (pun intended).she laughed at first but then agreed later (a few weeks later). Now he sends her money monthly and she continue to takehis calls.
I don't think I helps her scam him but it's a fine line for sure. Personally, I think it's right he should pay for her to be on a time retainer for him and not a scam at all but it's a matter of perspective. A gray area.
Monger, dont let your ship sink further. You may be special to these girls but your a special customer. A customer. Sorry if that wounds your who but in the long run its healthier to put yourself back in place.
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