Originally posted by Tuffbod at 8-3-2012 16:39
I agree to that as well. I almost paid with my marriage and before that, there were all those meals, calls, hotel room fees, some gifts here and there... in the end, paying a couple hundred dollars for the one night of stress free, worry free fun is much more worthwhile.
This is very much my attitude, why bother with risk when this is supposed to be about stress-free fun.
To me the difference between civvie and WG is that the WG is there for fun, if I were looking to invest time and effort into building a relationship with a civvie I'd expect more than just sex in return (as would they and this is where the risk starts) with alot more emotional give-and-take. A relationship with a WG is a more immediate one (to me anyway) like a therapist of sorts (a friend once used this example) where you can be slightly more selfish as long as you approach the situation with respect.
Horses for courses? (maybe an appropriate saying) |
