Reply #7 Intenseslacker's post
this way or that way it's hit-and-miss ...
As good as the bars are for checking looks and chemistry, the quality can be very variable ... you need to get the right timing to get the pretty girls, handle competition from other bros (especially if you want a hottie), navigate carefully between pros and civvies ... etc. ... it's easy for those of us who are fluent in the game to forget how daunting it is for a beginner ...
By contrast, going to a walkup is much simpler and initially impersonal ... check the website to make a shortlist, no need to get up from your desk, no walking around, no time pressure ... then you knock on her door and make a go-nogo decision ... it's your choice, 95% of the time there's no rejection and no hassle ...
Horses for courses, he needs to figure out what gives him the best return for his effort based on his personality. | |
