all good suggestions
i'd suggest caution with either blue-lozenges or alcohol, they might help, they might NOT. depends on yr age, disposition, etc. laying off weasel-whacking for a few days is a definite plus tho, from the way you've described your situation.
i'd try some relaxation techniques, even as simple as sitting solo on a bench and looking at nature: Victoria Harbour, a goddam tree, whatever. or read a book u like.
what's going on, i'm guessing, is you're not relaxed. first/second punts, esp if yr relatively young, are nerve-wracking. punting isn't for everyone, but u won't know until u've gotten a few under yr belt.
however, remember this IS the world's oldest profession. why? because we're GUYS. we like sex. women like sex too, but when it's rendered as a service, it's usually the guy handing over the banknotes.
WGs are service-providers, they will be working whether you're there or not. this isn't a competitive sport. you want to achieve orgasm. she's got the same goal. how you get there and how long it takes (well, there is a time-limit most of the time) simply DOES NOT MATTER.
the problem with relaxing is that if u think I MUST RELAX/I MUST RELAX/I MUST RELAX, you're going to tense up. try to take your brain out of the equation. relax until the time you show up, then walk in and smile. you're going to treat a lady well. if in HK, bring her some fruit. chat a bit if u have a common language. we're all the same species--she's there to provide a service, you're there to enjoy it. her body may not be perfect, you may not feel yours is either. NONE of us have perfect bodies! if you're relaxed, you're less likely to find things that bother you, and will find it easier to enjoy the things you DO like.
C Court in TST has been around awhile, it's a typical 141 walkup-place. if u don't mind more mature women, try a place like K-Pressure or 37 Dundas. here you can sit and they will bring WGs for yr selection. but regardless of where you go, remember that these women have seen it all. they know how to bring guys to orgasm. and once you relax, you WILL find yourself heading there.
relax, bro. this scene was here long before you were and will be here long after all we're all gone. few WGs are perfect, and neither are we. that has never, EVER, stopped me from having a great time, and a righteous orgasm or three. you can try meditation, standing on yr head, an ice-bath, whatEVER. as long as when you show up, yr relaxed and ready to rock.
bring fruit. treat her politely. and cum like Mount Vesuvius.
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