Hate to say it..., but
Am I the only one who wonders if the OP's story is even true? It just sounds like a newbie looking for attention.
I sincerely apologize if it is true, Gweilo, but you've got no history on 141 and this is one of your very first posts. You cant back it up with a pic or other details about her, yet ask us for info on her. How exactly are we supposed to do that? Ya gotta admit, it sounds like you are trolling....
Assuming it is true: (another fish bites the hook....???)
I have given cash to help out the occassional WG regular of mine. (one gal had breast cancer, another got beaten and needed help with hospital bills, another's sis was in jail and needed airline money to get home upon release.... etc.). In most cases I accepted that I DIDNT KNOW if she was being completely truthful. How could I know with 100% certainty? But I felt it was true, the amount asked would not affect me much, and it made me feel good inside to help. I put faith in them and helped. In all cases, so far, I learned after-the-fact that the stories were true: The cancer-girl showed me pics in hospital and the scars from the operation when she finally returned to HK, ditto the gal who was beaten (this was recent, and the latest pics are MUCH better, incidentally... happy for her), I met the incarcerated-sister who insisted upon meeting me upon her release to say "thanks", etc., etc.).
Their gratitude for trusting them and helping them when they needed it most was bountiful and continues to this very day. I still see all of them when they come back to HK or when I'm travelling to their cities - and you can imagine how strong the GFE is after such a shared experienced.
But your case is different. Sponsoring a gal monthly, from afar, is entirely crazy. I have been asked often and have heard every story in the book. Never have I, or will I, do it. Nothing has changed in her world except that her bank account gets topped up monthly. But you are not there to give your love or emotional support, or remove the boredom, or take her to dinner and the movies and shag her every now and then. If the amount you send is "just enough" for her to support her family and get by.., well hmmmmm..., why not keep working and actually start living a bit better??? Maybe she'll slow down a bit..., but this is her chance to get that new iPhone, and maybe those new shoes, or whatever. Having sex for cash is something she's used to doing. A good shag every now and then is fun too... No matter what you pay she'll always find a need for a little bit more cash (dont we all??) and she knows exactly how to get it. Just say "yes" when the next regular calls. Easy. And risk-free given you are 5,000 miles away.
The fact that she is not open about her past or her monetary situation says it all. Her heart is not really yours... Maybe she CANT give it fully anymore after years of selling her body, or maybe she's just stringing you along to see how much she can get. Either way.., the lack of honesty and tranperancy should tell you everything you need to know about how to proceed. | |
