Reply to Gonuts
Well, it does seem you "know" yourself well enough, AND realize your thoughts are likely not entirely healthy or realistic. This is good - as my guess is you'll grow out of this mindset just fine.
No matter which girl you're with you will find flaws and imperfections: be they physical, behavior or attitudes, past sins... Whatever. If you expect to find the purest virgin goddess with a pristine past, with nary an ill-word spoken, nor the faintest taint of wrongdoing...., you'll be waiting a LONG time.
Besides, she's already married to Santa - he doesn't exist either. (Or so I'm told).
Besides, this perfect woman would be frickn BORING as hell!!
At your age you don't need to be searching for your soulmate. Just go have some fun! Relax your expectations and practise your social skills on some lesser-beauties. Gain some confidence then move up the food chain.., or not. You migh t just find "the one" along the way.... | |
